Many people want to put their affairs are in order before they die. They may want to be sure their family is cared for properly, or to reduce the number of things left for their carers to deal with.  Putting your affairs in order can be difficult, but it often provides a sense of relief.

People also like to leave some memories for their loved ones, like photos, videos or letters. This is particularly important for parents of young children who want to leave them messages for the future. 

Everyone is different, but most people want know how much time they have, and what it will be like. Doctors may not be able to give exact answers but they will be able to explain what commonly happens.

Many people are concerned about what symptoms they will have. The palliative care team can provide information about this, and explain what treatments there are to control symptoms.

In the time before dying most people slip in and out of consciousness. For many people, dying is a very peaceful experience.